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The best thing would be
talk openly with your hubby, in a non-threatening and
non-demanding situation. Tell him what makes you come
during intercourse. If you are not much bothered at this
point of time by his coming too soon, assure him so.
Gradually you both can tune yourselves to achieve
orgasms at a speed that is comfortable to both of you.
Meanwhile you might try
woman-on-top position where you will have better control
on thrusting (speed, depth, angle etc) and he will have
better control on ejaculation. While you are on top, he
can directly stimulate your clitoris, or just place his
finger in such a way that your clitoris hits the finger
as you rock back and forth or up and down. These
measures will enhance your sexual excitement and takes
you close to orgasm faster.
Your husband might also
try a vibrating condom. During intercourse you or he can
press the vibrator on when you need greater stimulation.
Have you tried ribbed
condoms?
I hope this info will help
you overcome the problem. You may back if you need
further help.
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