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Nothing is
wrong with you. Nor with him. He is a little above average
and so there is a small disparity between your genital
dimensions.
You don’t
have to lose your relationship on account of this. Try these
changes in coital positions and hopefully your problem would
be resolved.
1) In
man-on-top position, lie down with your face up, place
pillow of moderate thickness under your buttocks. This will
help your pelvic organs slip backwards and allow the vaginal
barrel to stretch an extra inch or so, so that you may have
less or no discomfort.
2) A
variant to the above is to hold your thighs closer, soon
after he enters you. Since your knees are close together,
your boyfriend has to rest his knees outside of your thighs.
This precludes deep penetration and thrusting but allows
tight grip on the penis, and increased pleasure.
3) A
third position is sometimes called knee-elbow position,
wherein you will rest on your knees and elbows with your
face on the bed and buttocks raised up. Adjust the distance
between your knees so that he can kneel behind you, and
enter the vagina from behind This is the best position when
the penis is really long, or the woman’s vagina is shallow,
because the vaginal canal is lengthened more in this
position than any in any other. The man’s hands are free for
caresses and there is no weight thrown upon you.
4) Last
but not the least, whatever the position, encourage your
partner give you shallow thrusting. The most sensitive part
of the vagina, as you may have realized over the years, is
usually at its opening, up to an inch or two deep. With
shallow thrusting, the vaginal opening slowly gets narrower
and gives a snug pull around the head of the penis by
wrapping around it [for a man whose glans penis is thicker
than the middle shaft]. It’s a bonus for your man. As for
you, the ridge around the head of his penis strokes the most
sensitive part of your vagina i.e, the walls around your
vaginal entrance.
I hope this
information helps and I would appreciate your feedback.
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