A 24-yr. Indian male writes:
Hi! I am a 24-year
old boy. I am a regular visitor of your site. I love to read all the
answers which u give in a detailed manner. But for the past few months
I am facing a problem for which I am mentally and physically very
disappointed. Please give answer to my question. I will be waiting for
Q. I am
masturbating regularly from the age of !7.If I do not masturbate at
least once a day then after two days or so I notice that I have
frequent erections throughout the day and thinks about nude men and
women which increases my sexual desires and often leads to nightfall.
During those days I cannot concentrate in my works and I am mentally
very upset. Every thing is normal if I masturbate regularly. I know
that too much of masturbation is harmful to sexual life. But I cannot
live normally without masturbating. Please let me know why this
Who said too much
masturbation is harmful. HOW MUCH is TOO much?
At your age sexual
thoughts, feelings and responses are high. In fact, the highest in a
man's life time. SO it's natural that if they are not released by one
or the other means, what you have just described will happen. Sexual
energies wont let you keep cool. They drive you to crazily search for
an outlet. Let go off through masturbation than let those feelings
upset your cool, concentration and other abilities.
The good thing is -
neither night falls nor masturbation is harmful. They are quite normal
and do you good.
So don't worry if even
if you have to masturbate every day. It's many times safer than
experimenting sex with men and women and thus contracting STDs, HIV
If you have concerns, problems, questions about sex
Ask the consultant
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